Toxic marriage relationship!
Greetings to everyone, welcome to another featured post of the week. It's wonderful to participate in this edition.
Before I go into the details of this toxic relationship. Let's see what toxic means. A Toxic relationship means harmful or dangerous people around you or another person who is relating to you.
In this phase of life, we have encountered one or more toxic relationships or people that harm us in one way or the other. It happens everywhere to anybody. Toxic relationship could be your close friends, neighbors, blood siblings, parents and........
Mores, when we encounter toxic people in our lives, it doesn't mean it harm us, at times, toxic people come into our lives to change us to be better for the future. Not toxic relationship is unhealthy. Difficult people must come your way, you don't expect good people to relate with you all the time.
Even Messiah, was in good and toxic relationships with people, especially His disciples. At times, this happens, so we can learn how to accommodate them in a suitable way.
In a real sense, relationships are meant to help one another to achieve purpose or one change one another for the better. In today's world, you can't change a toxic person.
I have never been in a toxic relationship before, but I have been witnessing them. I want to share this story of married couples. This one is in marriage, wahala. I, personally, kicked against divorce and when it comes to toxic marriage relationship, what should be done? “Space needs to be given for some times”
This was a life story, from my neighbor.
This man is a medical doctor who got married to a beautiful damsel who is a nurse. They are well-to-do, with beautiful children. But, I don't know what brought the disparity between them.
A man who is a medical doctor should be sensitive not to beat his wife when she is with pregnancy. I don't know what this man studied in school that he could not control his hands when it comes to beating.
There was a day he threw his wife outside and gave her uncontrollably beating with pregnancy. Her wife screamed, my mother rushed out to their compound and separated them, brought his wife to our house. Every little thing about their marriage was/is toxic. Some days, the wife would go to work with scars on her legs and body. Which is so terrible and discouraging to the singles who are not yet married.
Toxic marriage relationship is the worst, it kills instantly. Therefore, we need to be wise when it comes to relationships that lead to marriage.
A Toxic relationship can mar or ruin your future, it can take you where, you're supposed not to go.
We all need to be careful in relationships.
This post is in response to hivelearners initiative contest week 61 edition 1.
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