When you are at the mercy of people, they act like they have every right to your life. Like they can simply walk on you without any conscience.
Most times people don't really help because they genuinely want to or because they are sympathetic and wanna help but rather because they want you to be at their mercy.
They wanna use their help against you and manipulate you with it as much as they can.
Knowing that some people who easily receive help from people are very vulnerable at times and sometimes the people in question feel indebted to their helpers.
In our world today only a few genuinely help with no ulterior motives. Some help because they are expecting a favor in return or something is eating them up and the only way they see possible to deal with or tackle that thing is by offering to help or pretending to help their victims. While some help because it's a kind of a manipulative tool for them.
Among these cruel sets of people, they are still those that are truly compassionate and sympathetic towards their fellow men and offer genuine help in the best way they can.
Help! Manipulations! Victims!
Everything and anything can be easily implemented.
One can easily become a victim of manipulation because of the help they received from people. It's wouldn't be said, it's not always written on the face but it happens at times and many had been victims already.
When one is easily pushed around by people or some set of people because of one thing or the other those people did for him or her then you bet that is manipulation is playing out.
Try not to be at the mercy of people because of the help they offered you. Though we can't always control the way people treat us or what they do to us but we can always control how and what they make us feel. People can not make us feel indebted to them thereby manipulating and using us if we don't give them the chance. It all starts and begins with us.
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27 March 2022
